You seriously overestimate the amount of money NGUI makes if you think I can just hire people freely. I already hired one guy, and he's a dev, and last week the profits were in the negatives, for example.
What version of Unity are you using?3.5.3f Pro
All I can suggest is what I've mentioned already -- when re-parenting a widget, Broadcast CheckParent to that instance. If you can't figure it out, you can send a reproduceable example to support at tasharen.com and I'll have a look at it.