Update:
thinking - my VM is xp- I recall XP has extra stuff you have to do to enable upnp- thats probably where my error is coming from ....
what I think RIGHT NOW:
1- The package has some issues with vmware adapters + mac os (mostly this is a mono issue- its just a problem in mono breaks the cross platform code in the package)- I implemented some mac specific logic (in c#) to fix this problem- on my mac I can now reliably get the ip address of my local outbound nic card
2- There is an additional issue with mac os + Upnp which is likely made worse by having vmware installed -> this is my working theory at the moment
my PLAN:
I am going to try a windows 7 machine running - hopefully the udp lobby will work on that
once I have the UDP lobby actually running- I can compare the working code's behavior against the non-working code- from there I should be able to narrow in on the problem..
I am hoping to figure this out soon
thanks everyone for your help!
Brian
