When running examples server never connects, only get TimedOut

[nullxero]

I recently purchased TNet and am trying to get some of the examples working, but every connection attempt simply times out.

Ive tried building the server from source, and also tried using the built in server. 

Here is a screenshot of what happens:
https://www.dropbox.com/s/8ymgr0vv72hn6b3/Screenshot%202014-08-06%2008.56.26.png

I click "Start Local Server" then click the LAN Ip address to auto-join (also tried the other join button).  The UI says Connecting... but doesn't ever go past that.

After a second or two a warning appears at the bottom that says "10.0.0.4:56513 has timed out".  If I run this from the console it says the same thing, but in the console. 

Please help!

-Ben