Many thx,
the prefab were the right solution, now everything works out. In order to change the button size i can change the prefab by changing the values of the width/heigth. Is is possible to do the same by just resizing on of the buttons made of this prefab ?
When i do this now, just this buttons changes in size, the prefab and so the others buttons stay the same. This way would
be more "visual".
EDIT:
This was really easy to solve, just click the apply button on the prefab line in the prefab item inspector window.
Another thing:
The buttons now get placed correct in the grid by changing the grid cell width dynamic to the button width. This works well,
but after i stop playing the scene the buttons get placed back to the original wrong position. How to save this positions ? I guess that was what you were trying to tell me with the lists ?